Frequently Asked Questions
What should I wear?
Cocktail attire in warm, rich tones — think rust, terracotta, toffee, olive, teal, navy, or chocolate. Please avoid white, ivory, and hunter green. Late-October evenings in the Catskills are chilly, so bring a warm layer for the outdoor ceremony.
What will the weather be like?
The forecast predicts a high of 60 and a low of 45. We'll be outdoors, so bring some warm clothes.
Are kids welcome?
We love your little ones, but we've decided to make this an adults-only celebration. We hope this gives you a chance to enjoy a night off!
Can I bring a plus one?
Your invitation is addressed to everyone in your party — if you have questions, just ask us.
Is there parking at the venue?
Yes, there's parking on-site. We're also running a shuttle between Woodstock and the venue, so if you book somewhere in Woodstock or along Route 28, we can get you there and back.
Do you have a registry?
Your presence is truly the best gift. If you'd still like to give something, see our registry page.
Isn't October 31 Halloween?
It is! We're keeping the wedding itself costume-free, but Friday's welcome party is fair game. Come in costume if the spirit 👻 moves you.
(both Bram and Jill will be dressed up)
I have a dietary restriction — what should I do?
The RSVP form will ask about meals and dietary needs. If anything changes later, just reach out to us directly.
When should I RSVP by?
RSVPs were due by September 15, 2026, and are now closed. If you haven't RSVP'd and need to, please reach out to us directly.
How do I reach you with other questions?
You know how to find us; just reach out the way you normally would.